Major Progress!

This has been an eye-opening year.  I never, ever liked talking about money with my husband because I always ended up upset. Avoiding the big elephant in the room was getting tough and I wasn't getting very far with controlling my money instead of it controlling me. I don't keep any credit cards in my wallet anymore, so I'm not adding to any credit cards, which in itself is great. However, I was still broke a week after I got paid, and often bills were not paid. There was always month left long after the money was gone.

Jim was asked to teach a finance course to the Young Married group at Church and I went to support him. After a couple of lessons, the lessons were sinking in. I took some of the ideas to heart, and one in particular is working great for me.

While I had a spreadsheet telling what how much to pay each month and to whom, if I didn't pay it right after I got paid I found I had already spent the money on something else. I could never keep up with monthly hair appointments because I'd already spent the $30. When it came time to get the oil changed in my truck, I'd have to write furoriously for the extra money to pay for it. I never had money to subscribe to my favorite magazines. Never had money for an impromptu day trip for a story, and certainly never tithed at Church, something I had often felt bad about, but felt I had no choice.

I took several letter-sized envelopes and on the top right corner I wrote tithe,groceries,prescriptions,truck maintenance, hair, subscriptions, dr, hair, travel savings, etc. From my spreadsheet, I wrote the amount I needed for these items each month under the title for that envelope.  When my monthly check comes, I take it to the bank and take out all but the money for my credit card payment, which I do by electronic transfer, and twenty extra for emergencies, fees, etc.  The cash goes into the envelopes, and the envelopes go into the drawer. When I'm going grocery shopping I take the envelope for groceries and the one for gas, and I fill up the truck. The receipt for groceries goes in with what's left of the grocery money.

My check comes in next week and I still have money in the grocery envelope, the gas tank in the truck is 3/4 full, all my bills are paid and I have $30 cash plus money in my paypal account. This system is working so well for me that I've stopped making fun of my husband who has done this for years. He does it for the big things, like house taxes and insurance, our time-share annual fees, car insurance and vacation savings.

I've been diligently paying down the single card I have a balance on, and it is down to $2750. When I started I had two cards with a balance of over $7000 so I am making great progress towards my goal of being debt-free!